{"id":103467,"date":"2015-07-24T09:28:00","date_gmt":"2015-07-24T13:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/?p=103467"},"modified":"2015-08-03T09:29:50","modified_gmt":"2015-08-03T13:29:50","slug":"until-choice-do-us-part","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/2015\/07\/until-choice-do-us-part\/","title":{"rendered":"Until Choice Do Us Part"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding: 5px 15px 15px 0px; clear: both; float: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/UntilChoiceCover.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-103465 img-responsive lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/UntilChoiceCover.jpeg\" alt=\"UntilChoiceCover\" width=\"150\" height=\"226\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/UntilChoiceCover.jpeg 333w, https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/UntilChoiceCover-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/UntilChoiceCover-280x420.jpeg 280w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 150px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 150\/226;\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>The origins of current marital norms in American society can be traced to the theoretical and experimental reform of marriage that took place in the progressive era, according to UConn English professor <a href=\"http:\/\/english.uconn.edu\/clare-eby\/\">Clare Virginia Eby<\/a> in her book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/022608583X\/?tag=newbooinhis-20\"><em>Until Choice Do Us Part: Marriage Reform in the Progressive Era<\/em><\/a> (University of Chicago Press, 2014).<\/p>\n<p>In the book, Eby details how, breaking with tradition, marriage theorists at the turn of the 20th century proposed a new egalitarian model of mutual consent and affection. Marital reform ideals included breaking the economic dependency of women, rejecting the validation of marriage by church or state, voluntary monogamy, at-will divorce, and mutual sexual satisfaction.<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding: 5px 5px 10px 10px; clear: both; float: right;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/rings150723c017.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-103464  img-responsive lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/rings150723c017-e1437682218520-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding rings. (Sean Flynn\/UConn Photo)\" width=\"143\" height=\"143\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 143px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 143\/143;\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Redefining the marital relationship was seen as a means to reforming society as a whole, and a variety of writing helped the new model reach a larger reading public.<\/p>\n<p>Eby also examines the lives and writing of three literary couples who experimented with the new ideal, and whose literary works took up the themes of open marriage, sexual variety, emotional compatibility, dual careers, and the end of love in divorce.<\/p>\n<p><em>Until Choice Do Us Part<\/em> provides insight into contemporary marriage patterns, and the ongoing tension between love and freedom.<\/p>\n<p>Listen to Eby discussing her book here:<\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-103467-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/files.universityofconn.netdna-cdn.com\/today\/2015\/07\/034gendereby.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/files.universityofconn.netdna-cdn.com\/today\/2015\/07\/034gendereby.mp3\">http:\/\/files.universityofconn.netdna-cdn.com\/today\/2015\/07\/034gendereby.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Interview courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/newbooksnetwork.com\/\">New Books Network<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>English professor Clare Eby discusses her book, which traces the origins of current marriage norms to reforms that took place at the turn of the 20th century.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":58,"featured_media":103464,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_crdt_document":"","wds_primary_category":0,"wds_primary_series":0,"wds_primary_attribution":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2226,2076,1],"tags":[],"magazine-issues":[],"coauthors":[117],"class_list":["post-103467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-clas","category-research","category-uncategorized"],"pp_statuses_selecting_workflow":false,"pp_workflow_action":"current","pp_status_selection":"publish","acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-05-10 09:40:59","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/users\/58"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=103467"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103467\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":103481,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103467\/revisions\/103481"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/media\/103464"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=103467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=103467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=103467"},{"taxonomy":"magazine-issue","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/magazine-issues?post=103467"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=103467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}