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Chatting before the Myles Martel Lecture in Leadership are, from left, humor expert John Morreall, former UConn president Philip Austin, alumus Myles Martel, and CLAS dean Jeremy Teitelbaum. (Tina Covensky for UConn)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

If you want to get something done, be funny.<\/p>\n

That was the message from John Morreall, a humor expert who explored the serious relationship between humor, leadership, and persuasion in the biannual Myles Martel Lecture in Leadership and Public Opinion at Konover Auditorium on Thursday.<\/p>\n

Humor Works<\/em>, the title of a book he wrote, is Morreall\u2019s mantra.<\/p>\n

Humor is particularly effective in the leadership style that has evolved in the business and political worlds in the past 20 years, he said. That style involves rewards, not punishment; sharing knowledge to empower people; and being able to laugh at yourself.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a far cry, he said, from the days when 300-pound President William Howard Taft felt that he had to hide the story about getting stuck in the White House bathtub, or from Adolf Hitler\u2019s \u201cjoke courts\u201d that hanged a stand-up comedian in Berlin for naming his horse \u201cAdolf.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHumor is enjoying incongruity \u2026 You get a mental jolt, but you like it,\u201d said Morreall.<\/p>\n

And it indirectly conveys a message that otherwise might offend. On a trip to an antique shop with his family, Morreall saw this sign: \u201cUnattended children will be given an espresso and a free kitten.\u201d<\/p>\n

Humor also flattens hierarchies and fosters an open atmosphere, he noted.<\/p>\n

In speaking to a group of nurses and doctors, Morreall dissolved an underlying tension between the two groups by displaying a series of patients\u2019 chart notations by doctors. Among them:<\/p>\n

\u201cThe patient refused an autopsy.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOn the second day, her knee was better, and on the third day, it disappeared completely.\u201d<\/p>\n

Humor is often critical, said Morreall, who is a professor of religious studies at The College of William & Mary, which, he noted, counts John Stewart among its alumni.<\/p>\n

When the Republic of Abkhazia broke away from the Soviet Union in 1989, the first postage stamps it issued were of Marx and Lennon \u2013 Groucho Marx, and John Lennon.<\/p>\n

\u201cEven banks have started to use humor,\u201d said Morreall.<\/p>\n

People who can tolerate ambiguity, the essence of humor, are more creative and are better at divergent thinking, a basic skill of emotional intelligence, he said.<\/p>\n

He had this advice for would-be humorists: Avoid ridicule; don\u2019t talk down to people; tell stories from your own experience; connect the humor to the topic; and don\u2019t tip off the audience that you\u2019re trying to be funny.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you can joke about yourself, everyone can relax,\u201d he said, citing Ronald Reagan\u2019s famous debate quip about his advanced age, \u201cI\u2019m not going to exploit my opponent\u2019s youth and inexperience.\u201d<\/p>\n

The Martel lecture is endowed in the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences by Myles Martel \u201965 (CLAS), who was a personal debate adviser to Ronald Reagan and has advised more than 40 senators, congressmen, governors, and others on communications and leadership. He is president of Martel & Associates, a leadership development and communications firm.<\/p>\n

Martel has received many honors, including the UConn Distinguished Alumni Award for Outstanding Professional Achievement.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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