{"id":55765,"date":"2011-08-17T16:04:12","date_gmt":"2011-08-17T21:04:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/?p=55765"},"modified":"2012-03-06T10:51:34","modified_gmt":"2012-03-06T15:51:34","slug":"supporting-civility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/2011\/08\/supporting-civility\/","title":{"rendered":"Supporting Civility"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_54573\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-54573\" style=\"width: 125px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/columnist-jeremy-teitelbaum.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-54573 img-responsive lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/columnist-jeremy-teitelbaum.jpg\" alt=\"Jeremy Teitelbaum, dean of the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences.\" width=\"125\" height=\"160\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/columnist-jeremy-teitelbaum.jpg 235w, https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/columnist-jeremy-teitelbaum-78x100.jpg 78w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 125px) 100vw, 125px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 125px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 125\/160;\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-54573\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jeremy Teitelbaum, dean of CLAS.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>A couple of weeks ago, <a href=\"http:\/\/president.uconn.edu\">President Herbst<\/a> announced the publication of a  revised <a href=\"http:\/\/www.audit.uconn.edu\/doc\/codeofconduct.pdf\">code of conduct<\/a> for the university, calling our attention to  newly adopted civility  standards. Under the civility heading, the code  states that \u201call  members of the University community have a  responsibility to treat each  other with consideration and respect.\u201d More significant from my point  of view, though, is the statement that  \u201cManagers and supervisors have  an elevated responsibility to demonstrate  these behaviors and support  their expression in the workplace.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After  all, it\u2019s not really asking very much to require all of us to  treat  each other with \u201cconsideration and respect.\u201d Although, in my  younger  days, I was a little too quick to resort to nasty sarcasm with  people I  disagreed with, I\u2019ve since mellowed and (mostly) I practice   self-control.<\/p>\n<p>The  requirement to support civil behavior in the workplace is much  harder  to carry out. Nothing involving interactions among people is  ever  straightforward, and the university leadership should not be  policing  day-to-day interactions among colleagues. At the same time,  even in  situations where people are clearly out of line, it\u2019s all too  easy to  look the other way rather than confront them about their bad  behavior.  And, of course, changing some people\u2019s \u00a0behavior for the  better can be  nearly impossible.<\/p>\n<p>My  biggest concern, though, is that because of \u00a0my position in a   hierarchy, and the privileges I enjoy, I never find out about problems   in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>You  see, my life as a dean is pretty nice. Talented staff people  handle  all kinds of routine things \u2013 like paperwork \u2013 that used to  eat up my  time when I was a faculty member. When I show up at a lecture  or other  event, people tell me how glad they are to see me. They  compliment any  remarks I make, no matter how perfunctory. When I  provide funding for a  piece of equipment, or for an adjunct instructor,  or some other  project, the recipient thanks me for my support. Often,  even when I  turn down a request, I get thanked just for considering  it!<\/p>\n<p>The  bottom line is that people all around me are constantly treating  me  with \u201cconsideration and respect.\u201d It would be all too easy for me  to  conclude that because my situation is so pleasant, so is everyone   else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>But  CLAS is a very big organization, and my position is unique. It  would  be naive \u2013 and irresponsible \u2013 for me to generalize from my  experience  to that of others. What makes the obligation to support  civility weigh  on me is the fact that, if I\u2019m going to \u201csupport\u201d  consideration and  respect across the college, I need to reach out  beyond my zone of  comfort. I need to talk to people \u2013 lots of people, listen to what  they have to say, and try to piece together as much  of the true state of  affairs as I can. Of particular importance is the  fact that I need to  account for the fact that people will be reluctant  to volunteer  unpleasant information to me.<\/p>\n<p>What  weighs most heavily, though, is the fact that I am accountable  not only  for my own behavior, but ultimately for the behavior of  everyone in the  college who holds a position of authority \u2013 whether  formal authority  derived from a position in the hierarchy, or informal  authority like  that wielded by every faculty member who teaches,  interacts with staff,  or advises graduate students. Everyone in such a  position \u2013 every  faculty member and every senior staff person,  everyone who wields some  kind of power \u2013 faces some form of the  difficulties that I face in  finding out what\u2019s really going on around  them. They, too, need to reach  out, to listen to what\u2019s going on around  them, and to act where  necessary to uphold \u201cconsideration and respect\u201d  among members of the  university community.<\/p>\n<p>To  be honest, this accountability is the scariest part of my job. I  would  rather deal with any number of budget crises than try to  intervene in  situations where \u201cconsideration and respect\u201d seem to have  broken down.  Still, I believe that nothing promotes more cynicism,  nothing  undermines productivity more quickly, nothing undermines  recruitment and  retention of talented people more thoroughly than a  lack of trust by  the students, staff, and faculty of the University in  the commitment of  its leadership to a decent working environment. So  even though budgetary  problems are more pleasant to deal with than  flawed personal  interactions, the responsibility of those in power to  promote a  favorable workplace climate is at the foundation of the  university\u2019s  success. \u00a0I hope we can live up to the responsibility.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of weeks ago, President Herbst announced the publication of a revised code of conduct for the university, calling our attention to newly adopted civility standards. Under the civility heading, the code states that \u201call members of the University community have a responsibility to treat each other with consideration and respect.\u201d More significant from [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_crdt_document":"","wds_primary_category":0,"wds_primary_series":0,"wds_primary_attribution":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"magazine-issues":[],"coauthors":[66],"class_list":["post-55765","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"pp_statuses_selecting_workflow":false,"pp_workflow_action":"current","pp_status_selection":"publish","acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-05-11 14:02:43","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55765","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55765"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55765\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":56029,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55765\/revisions\/56029"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55765"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55765"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55765"},{"taxonomy":"magazine-issue","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/magazine-issues?post=55765"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-rest\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=55765"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}