{"id":91314,"date":"2014-05-08T08:56:14","date_gmt":"2014-05-08T12:56:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/?p=91314"},"modified":"2023-06-27T13:11:55","modified_gmt":"2023-06-27T17:11:55","slug":"this-side-of-survival","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/2014\/05\/this-side-of-survival\/","title":{"rendered":"This Side of Survival"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This article was first published in the Spring 2014 print edition of\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/magazine.uconn.edu\/\">UConn Magazine<\/a><em>. To read more stories like this, visit\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/s.uconn.edu\/spring14\">s.uconn.edu\/spring 14<\/a> or <a href=\"http:\/\/magazine.uconn.edu\/app\/\">download\u00a0<\/a><\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/magazine.uconn.edu\/app\/\">UConn Magazine\u2019s<\/a><em><a href=\"http:\/\/magazine.uconn.edu\/app\/\"> free app<\/a>\u00a0for tablet devices.<\/em><\/p>\n<div style=\"padding: 5px 15px 10px 0px;clear: both;float: left\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-92905 img-responsive lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Gran-Fondo.jpg\" alt=\"Gran-Fondo\" width=\"406\" height=\"500\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Gran-Fondo.jpg 406w, https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Gran-Fondo-243x300.jpg 243w, https:\/\/today.uconn.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Gran-Fondo-341x420.jpg 341w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 406px) 100vw, 406px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 406px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 406\/500;\" \/><\/div>\n<p>One August morning shortly before he was to start his senior year of high school, John Tartaglio \u201914 MBA woke up with what he calls a \u201creally alarming pain deep in my legs.\u201d What he didn\u2019t yet know was that an extremely rare bacterial infection\u00a0\u2013 so uncommon that only 35 other people have ever been diagnosed with it\u00a0\u2013 was raging throughout his body.<\/p>\n<p>Over the next 24 hours, doctors did everything they could to save his life. Tartaglio, 17 years old at the time, returned to consciousness following what he thought would be exploratory surgery to devastating news: He no longer had legs. The infection \u2013 the source of which was never determined\u00a0\u2013 had spread so exceptionally fast that both his legs had to be amputated above the thigh.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA nurse came in and told me,\u201d says Tartaglio, now 26. \u201cI had tears in my eyes, and they were coming down my face, but I was just cold. I didn\u2019t want to deal with it. I didn\u2019t want to respond to it. I didn\u2019t want to acknowledge it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>15 Hours and 59 Minutes<\/strong><br \/>\nTartaglio spent several weeks recuperating in the hospital before moving on to physical therapy sessions at an outpatient facility. Because of the level of amputation, he was told by doctors and prosthetists alike that he would probably never walk again. \u201cThat wasn\u2019t really the answer I wanted to hear,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p>By Christmas, however, he had found a prosthetist who could help. That April, at a 2-mile walk held in his honor, he walked a quarter of a mile for the first time since the amputation\u00a0\u2013 a moment that he says changed his perspective for good \u201cabout what I was able to do, what capability I had.\u201d He had reached another milestone by June, walking at his high school graduation ceremony to accept his diploma.<\/p>\n<p>That summer, one of his physical therapists suggested Tartaglio take part in a team triathlon. Then his prosthetist offered him the opportunity to try out a prosthetic that would allow him to run.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t ever think I\u2019d have the opportunity to run,\u201d says Tartaglio, who laughingly admits he had despised running before his amputation. \u201cThat was a big mindset change.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Tartaglio went on not only to complete in a triathlon, but also numerous other endurance races\u00a0\u2013 from a 100-mile cycling race to a half-Ironman.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt starts out as one thing,\u201d he says. \u201cThen I was thinking: How can I step it up? How can I challenge myself even more? These weren\u2019t ever things that I saw myself doing. So to be able to challenge myself and to be able to succeed, I was just pushing my own boundaries to see what I could do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In 2009, a mere five years after being told he would never walk again, Tartaglio became the first person with no legs to complete the New York City Marathon\u00a0\u2013 crossing the finish line after a grueling 15 hours and 59 minutes. His record still stands.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI made it pretty clear to people that if I wanted to do it, it would happen,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018How far you fall\u2019<\/strong><br \/>\nTartaglio has not stopped making things happen. Today, he travels the country to inspire audiences with his story and has even appeared on \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.oprah.com\/own-where-are-they-now\/How-a-Man-Who-Lost-His-Legs-Took-on-the-New-York-Marathon-Video\">The Oprah Winfrey Show<\/a>.\u201d A UConn student, he is finishing his MBA at the School of Business this spring and interning in business development at Philips in Stamford, Conn. He and his wife have a daughter, Lily, who turns 1 this month.<\/p>\n<p>He also recently authored a memoir, <em>From Tragedy to Triumph: The Story of John Tartaglio<\/em> (No Limits Publishing, 2013), now available on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/From-Tragedy-Triumph-Story-Tartaglio\/dp\/0991259211\">Amazon<\/a>. And this past fall, he spoke at UConn\u2019s first student-organized <a href=\"http:\/\/tedxuconn.com\/\">TEDxUConn<\/a> (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TH9CqtMzxG0\">available for viewing on YouTube<\/a>), a conference series that features lectures on technological, sociocultural, and global trends.<\/p>\n<p>One of the main messages he shares with his audiences centers on his own personal mantra: \u201cHow far you fall doesn\u2019t determine who you are; it\u2019s how hard you work to get back up.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRegardless of who you are, you\u2019re going to have adversity,\u201d he says. \u201cYou\u2019re going to face some type of obstacle. How do you quantify that? You don\u2019t. You can\u2019t compare my adversity to your adversity. It\u2019s different. I don\u2019t care who you are, what your demographic is, what your background is, you have it. But it\u2019s not about that. It\u2019s not about what your adversity is compared to other people. It is what you do to face it, what you do to overcome it. <em>That<\/em> really defines who you are.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>With his UConn MBA complete, Tartaglio says he will look to get back into road races while continuing with his speaking engagements. At the same time, he has his sights set on pursuing a career in the business world as an internal consultant, using the same talent he has worked so hard to cultivate these past 10 years: motivating people to reach new goals.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor me, it has to do with being able to influence people and leading them to improve their performance,\u201d he says. \u201cI want to be able to help people get there. I like the idea of being able to help drive a strategy and have that bigger positive impact. That\u2019s really the tie-in. Having the personal connection is what would make it something I\u2019d be happy doing for a career.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>Learn more about John Tartaglio at <a href=\"http:\/\/johntartaglio.com\/\">johntartaglio.com<\/a>, or watch his TEDxUConn talk at <a href=\"http:\/\/s.uconn.edu\/tartaglio\">s.uconn.edu\/tartaglio<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When he was 17, John Tartaglio lost both his legs. Earlier this month, he graduated from UConn with an MBA. 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