‘I Don’t Want to Wish I’d Done More’

Finance major Ashley DeCarlo is a top student who holds down two jobs, a crepe expert, and – as head captain of the UConn cheerleading team – a self-described mom to 32. (Nate Oldham/UConn Photo)
Finance major Ashley DeCarlo is a top student who holds down two jobs, a crepe expert, and – as head captain of the UConn cheerleading team – a self-described mom to 32. (Nate Oldham/UConn Photo)

Ashley DeCarlo could best be described as unstoppable. She’s a finance major, captain of the UConn cheerleading team, a top student who holds down two jobs, a crepe expert, and a self-described mom to 32.

DeCarlo is so busy that she uses five day-planners to keep herself on schedule. Yes, five!

“I like to keep my life busy and interesting,” says DeCarlo, a senior who grew up in New Fairfield, Connecticut. “I wouldn’t find joy in sitting around and doing nothing.”

Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. Her drive developed, in part, from watching others struggle.

“I’ve seen people in life not taking advantage of what’s there for them. I’ve also seen a lot of people pass away before their time, whether by suicide or in accidents,” she says. “I don’t want to be 65 and wish I’d done more.”

An Investor at Age 8

DeCarlo’s finance career began at age 8, when her mom, Sue DeCarlo, a corporate executive who now owns her own investment company, taught her daughter about the stock market. They opened a joint investment account, and the younger DeCarlo bought stock in her favorite companies, like GameStop and Dick’s Sporting Goods.

“I would invest half of any money I got for my birthday or other celebrations,” she says. “I was really, genuinely interested in investing because I watched my mom do it.”

Although investing was in her blood, she came to UConn intent on a career in biomedical engineering. “I had my heart set on it,” she says. “My grandfather died of a faulty pacemaker, and that’s what drew me to the field. I wanted to change people’s lives.”

But several weeks into her first semester, she was drowning in the subject and realized it wasn’t for her. Devastated, she didn’t know if she would remain in college. She credits advisor Leo Lachut, UConn’s director of academic support, for helping her focus on her strengths and switch majors to the School of Business. He later offered additional advice and career connections. She has excelled in finance, earning a near-perfect GPA.

Assisting Other Students

During her time at UConn, she has tutored students who are on academic probation about how to manage their time. “That’s when I realized I really enjoy working with others and helping them,” she says.

With the encouragement of Lachut and Professor Lucy Gilson, head of the management department, she added a minor in management to give herself additional options.

She says the faculty and staff have been extremely helpful to her, not only in the classroom but in establishing her career path, helping her at pivotal moments, and steering her toward internships.

“I would tell incoming freshmen that things aren’t always as they seem,” she says. “I’ve started some classes thinking ‘This is going to be no fun’ and was incredibly surprised.

“I’ve had wonderful professors at UConn,” she adds. “They taught me how to see things differently and how to work effectively with other people.”

The Sport that Stuck

As head captain of the cheerleading team, Ashley DeCarlo is a self-described mom to 32. (Photo courtesy of Ashley DeCarlo)
As head captain of the cheerleading team, Ashley DeCarlo is a self-described mom to 32. (Photo courtesy of Ashley DeCarlo)

DeCarlo started cheerleading in 8th grade. “My dad [Wayne DeCarlo] didn’t have a son, so he put me in every sport he could,” she says, laughing. “The one he didn’t select was cheerleading, and that’s the one I stuck with.”

She now cheers for UConn football and both men’s and women’s basketball.

“I think cheerleading should be recognized along with every other college sport,” she says. “We put in just as much work. Our team is cheering for football and both basketball teams. In November, when they overlap, it’s intense.

“I’m the person I am because of cheerleading,” she continues. “I was shy in high school and through cheerleading I learned to talk to people. … It has really been an important part of my college experience.”

Although only 5 foot 2, DeCarlo says she has no issues being heard above the crowd. “I’m full Italian so I talk very loudly,” she says.

She has been head captain for two years. “They all call me mom,” she says of her cheerleading cohort. “My Instagram bio says I’m the mother of 32!”

Learning about Crepes and Mobile Banking

Behind the counter at Farmhouse Crepes in Downtown Storrs, DeCarlo still gets nervous when customers watch her making crepes. But she’s picked up some tips for making crepes. “I’ve discovered the key to a good crepe is to pour the batter in one smooth motion,” she says, adding, “I love making crepes. I never thought I’d particularly enjoy it, but it’s super fun.”

In addition to cooking for the UConn student-owned business, she runs the company’s social media.

She stacks her classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays, allowing time for cheerleading practice in the evenings, and five days for work, internships, and studying.

Her second job is at Geezeo, a fintech company based in Glastonbury, Connecticut, that makes platforms for mobile banking. DeCarlo works in the client success program, and has learned more about the product and how to talk about it with customers, as well as auditing the company’s contracts with clients to make sure they were being charged correctly.

Final Semester

Now embarking on her final semester, DeCarlo has accepted a full-time job with Insight Global, a recruiting firm that will soon open an office in Hartford. The company appealed to her because of the robust opportunities it offers for career advancement. Ultimately, however, she’d like to be her own boss.

“I want to own my own company someday. I have no clue exactly what it will be but eventually that’s what I’ll do,” she says. “I’m very leadership oriented. I like the aspect of not having a boss. But I also like organizing and working with people.

“I’d like to be the kind of leader who has the respect of their people, but still has the compassion,” she adds, “the type of person you know you could call during a crisis at midnight and who would help you out.”

But right now she has other demands. She has just adopted a pocket pit bull puppy named Theo, who she hopes to housebreak before classes get into full swing. And she has set an ambitious goal to raise $500 for Connecticut Children’s Medical Center during this year’s Huskython.

But when she looks ahead, DeCarlo becomes sentimental.

“I will miss UConn so much next year,” she says wistfully. “Freshman year, I thought it was so hard I would never get through it. Now I never want to leave!”